The Soft Boy aesthetic highlights a more sensitive side of masculinity that historically doesn’t garner the same attention as hyper masculinity. The trend was birthed on the Internet by guys’ interested in the beauty in art, vintage fashion and romantic influences. This look requires a preference for pastel colors, cozy fabrics, and an overall sense of comfort and ease. Men and boys who challenge society's traditional views of masculinity by embracing vulnerability and emotional expression often find comfort in styling themselves this way.

If you can relate, keep swiping to learn how to best pull off the soft boy aesthetic out of your own closet.

Pastel Colors

Colors are a pretty important part of pulling this look off. Lighter pastels like lavender, mint green and baby blue are more calming than shades like violet, lime green and cobalt blue, which make them perfect for this trend. When you restrict the colors you wear to a certain color palette, it also becomes easier to match other parts of your outfit like shoes, accessories and outerwear.

Relaxed Fits

Comfort is a main priority, so you should lean on loose, relaxed fit and oversized garments to complete your outfit. Comfortable, flowy fabrics further add to the laid back nature of the soft boy aesthetic. Layering different relaxed pieces can add a dimension to your outfit as well.

Cozy Knitwear

Layering is an essential aspect of the Soft Boy look, and multiple pieces of cozy knitwear are a must-have. Opt for neutral or pastel cardigans and sweaters to add warmth and texture to your outfit. Alternatively, a knit sweater in a cool pattern or design works against an otherwise neutral colored outfit. Wear your knits over t-shirts or layer them under jackets to create depth and a sense of softness in your overall look.

Vintage Pieces

Vintage styles fit nicely into the soft boy aesthetic, simply because you have to have an appreciation for styles form the past that shape how we dress today. If you put care into choosing vintage pieces that reflect who you are, the right vintage garment can do wonders for your outfit. Retro-inspired items like thrifted jackets, vintage tees, or old-school sneakers can help create a look that feels timeless yet personal. Wear a mix of vintage and contemporary pieces to craft a look with some balance.

Thoughtful Accessories

Soft Boy aesthetic accessory choices should be subtle, but meaningful. They’re meant to enhance the soft, artistic vibe, not over power it. As with any outfit, choose bags, watches and jewelry that complements your outfit's color scheme and overall mood — something that more emotionally sensitive people always manage to keep in mind.

Natural Fabrics

Go for garments made from natural fabrics like cotton, linen and wool. These fabrics feel great, but they also help create an overall relaxed vibe. The natural texture of these fabrics are perfect for adding depth to outfits that don’t include any stimulating colors.

Subtle Patterns

Most of the garments you wear should be solid colored, but a subtle pattern can add an interesting twist. Instead of bold stipes and abstract designs, go for garments in muted plaids, with shadow stripes or another pattern where the different colors are very similar. The best part is that it doesn’t really matter where you wear these patterns — shirts, pants, hats, socks, bags and shoes are all fair game. Just don’t over do it.

Layered Jewelry

Simple chains, thin rings, and minimalist bracelets are perfect jewelry choices for the soft boy aesthetic. Try different pieces to make just enough of a statement without compromising the softness of the overall look. You can either mix or match your metals depending on the outfit.

Soft Footwear

Obviously, Soft Boy footwear should be comfortable. You’ll never go wrong with a pair of all-white low tops, but sneakers in neutral or pastel tones work just as well. Certain styles of loafers and leather boots also fit into this softer aesthetic. Your shoes should match the overall softness of your outfit, and complete it without stealing the show. Always choose a shoe that you can wear all day long without much discomfort.